Love Notes by Rev. Kelly Dignan

Love Notes: Forgiveness and Redemption

First of all – THANK YOU so much for the birthday card, wishes and gift.  I am grateful.   I was deeply touched by a story of redemption and forgiveness told by the ministers of Foothills Unitarian, and so I share it here:   Dear Members of the Foothills Community,   On Sunday we arrived … Continued

Love Notes: Mid Year Update

If you’ve been in my office, you know that the whiteboard on the wall lists the strategic priorities for Ministry for our 2017-18 fiscal year.   Here’s a picture: Our fiscal year runs from July 1 through June 30. Each year we define strategic Ministry Goals and Board Goals. Usually I would give you an … Continued

Love Notes: The Sound of Silence

Dear ones, I write to you from an airplane traveling to Ohio. My father-in-law, Pete Dignan Sr., passed yesterday, and the celebration of his long life will occur in the days ahead. Although his death was expected, it was still a surprise, as is true for so many things in life. What I need now … Continued

Love Notes: Tricky Religious Words

At our All-Church Retreat, I led a session on religious language. We played a game where folks got a card with a tricky religious word on it and moved around the room to collect definitions. Then each person shared the definitions out loud. I thought you might all like to read what came up for … Continued

Love Notes: Diversity is Generative

This is the first fall season where there is no “back to school day” in our household.  All the kids have finished their education (at least for now). I feel a little melancholy, but it is beautiful to see them blossom and pursue their passions.   Our son Michael (now 23), loves permaculture. During his … Continued

Love Notes: What Should We Do?

I am amazed at how many decisions get made on a weekly basis at our church. Large and small, decisions are made by teams of committed volunteers so that our church can live its mission. In October, a decision will be made, and the processes will involve more than just a few people or a … Continued

Love Notes: “Dismantling White Supremacy”

In late May, I got a call from a reporter at UU World, our denomination’s magazine. She knew we had participated in the #UUWhiteSupremacyTeachIn during our worship service on April 30th. If you were not able to attend that Sunday, you can hear the service by going to our website: Worship/Past Worship Services/ scroll down … Continued

Love Notes: “Oh, Happy Day”

One of my favorite movies came out in the early 1990s – Sister Act.  A Reno lounge singer named Deloris Van Carter (played by Whoopi Goldberg) witnesses her gangster boyfriend killing someone. She reports it to the police who put her in the witness protection program at a nunnery with a new identity of Sister … Continued

Love Notes: You Are Your Body

This morning I took my regular walk up the hill from our house, across a stream, up some more hills until I reached my “sit spot” – one place I go to release and unclench. It feels different this morning.  First of all, my knees really hurt thanks to the long hike I took yesterday. … Continued

Love Notes: A Message from Rev. Kelly March 30, 2017

Hi all – The President of the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA), Rev. Peter Morales, resigned his position today. Here is a UU World article that summarizes events that have occurred this week around hiring practices at the UUA. Here is Peter’s letter. Here is a letter from the UUA Leadership Council which I recommend you … Continued

Love Notes: To You I Give

“From you I receive, to you I give. Together we share, and from this we live.” Number 402 in our grey hymnal – Singing the Living Tradition.   These words describe so simply how we help each other transform.   Last month we focused on the first phrase, “From you I receive.” During worship on … Continued

Love Notes: “From You I Receive”

The poet Mark Nepo says that on the surface of things, giving and receiving are about exchanges: “You need. I give. You feel grateful. I feel good about myself. You feel indebted.  You give back. We take turns. But below the surface of things, giving and receiving become indistinguishable, and the goal is not to … Continued

Love Notes: “Our True Selves”

Afraid that our inner light will be extinguished or our inner darkness exposed, we hide our true identities from each other. In the process, we become separated from our own souls. We end up living divided lives, so far removed from the truth we hold within that we cannot know the integrity that comes from … Continued

Love Notes: Prophecy

Our theme in January is prophecy. Unitarian Universalism is, and always has been, a prophetic religion which means we intervene in human history for the sake of social justice. Rev. Dr. Rebecca Parker describes prophets as “brave and bold people who are willing to see what is happening, to say what is happening, and to … Continued

Love Notes: “Presence”

Our theme this month is presence.  What does it mean to be a person of presence? A community of presence?   I don’t know about you, but I feel like I’m living in a society of anxiety. (If you say that out loud, it rhymes.) The presidential campaign created a profound sense of separation, fear, … Continued

Love Notes: Life is Better with Fiction

As a young girl, I loved to read. I read Nancy Drew novels, The Little House on the Prairie, and I’m sure I would have read Harry Potter if he and his friends had been around. However, for most of my adult life, I was too busy to read fiction. Working full time. Driving kids … Continued

Love Notes: Restoring Wholeness

Our theme in October is Healing. The dictionary definition is: to make healthy, whole, or sound; to become well. Synonyms include: alleviate; reconcile; soothe; repair; mend; revive. Last month, we talked about how for Unitarian Universalists, covenant is a promise to connect to the Source of Life, ourselves, the Earth, each other, society, and those … Continued

Love Notes: A Culture of Covenant

Unitarian Universalism is a covenantal, not creedal, religion. That means  we do not espouse doctrines or subscribe to dogma. Each of us have freedom of belief; we can believe whatever helps us deepen faith, live well, and enact justice. So what makes us a religion? The etymology of the word religion is religare which in … Continued

Love Notes: “What is Your Theme?”

Love Notes: “What is Your Theme?” by Rev. Kelly Dignan During the months of July and August, we do not have a monthly ministry theme, and I must admit I miss it. I miss having a focal point, a topic we think about together in worship, meetings, and at home. We explored so much last … Continued

Love Notes: “Creative Imagination Provides Hope”

As I write this, it has been only five days since the mass shooting in Orlando. This tragedy is a prime example of how justice issues intersect: hate toward people who identify as LGBTQAI, racism and anti-immigrant sentiments (Latinos were the predominant victims at Pulse Night Club), gun violence, mental health issues, and Islamophobia. How … Continued